Leaving the EU… or not

Tonight the world is watching the results of the British vote to leave the European Union or stay. Now, I’m a US citizen. I don’t know all the pro’s and con’s of this, although I have my opinion (leave), but not really my place to get into it, probably.

That said, watching social media I’ve seen a trend that disturbs me. It’s probably to be expected, but still.

In general, the younger folks seem to want to remain with the EU, while the older folks tend toward leaving. Related to that, I’ve seen lots of younger folks expressing their opinion that the older citizens shouldn’t be voting for something that will have long term impact on the younger generation, while the older generation won’t live long enough to suffer from potential issues.

Well, guess what kids, consider this:

The vast majority of those older folks have children and grandchildren who they would die for. They have sacrificed for those children and grandchildren their entire lives and would do anything they could to see their offspring succeed and only want the best for them.

They may be right or wrong in the decisions they make, but I guarantee that they make them with the best interests of the younger generation at heart, not just their own selfish concerns.

Give them the benefit of the doubt that, although they may make mistakes, they will go to the grave having done the best they could for you, even if you don’t (now) think so.

Running Buddy Pouches

Running Buddy makes some pretty slick little "belt pouches" designed to clip to a pair of running shorts or the like where you don’t have or want to wear a belt. They also seem popular with some travelers, including a crowd who has posted positive reviews for using them while at Disney. If you’ve been to Disney, you know that hauling a bit of "stuff" with you can get annoying after a while and people come up with all kinds of solutions for that.

This is an odd product, in that my initial impression wasn’t that great. Well made, certainly, but just didn’t seem to fit me well. Since that time, my opinion has changed, and I’ve waited a bit in writing this to let things settle in to make sure I gave things a fair shake.

I ordered their "Super Saver Bundle! Buddy Pouch and Buddy Pouch Mini (3 Colors)" (although I only got black, but that was my choice) straight from the Running Buddy web site. At the time I ordered (and still, I just checked) they were offering $1 shipping.

There is also a discount code "Travel10" that I found that gives you a 10% discount that you can apply during the checkout process.

I’m not getting any kickback on these, and don’t know how long they are good for.

Anyhow, they shipped USPS, but in some manner that actually had tracking information that was updated promptly and I could follow along. That’s a novelty for my local Post Office, but anyhow. Package came promptly (2-3 days) and I opened it up.

I played with the two pouches a bit, trying to find the best fit for some of my gear I wanted to use them for. Then attempted to put the bigger pouch on my pants/belt.

Please note that I’m wearing this on a pair of pants/slacks with a belt, not running shorts. That’s my limitation, not the vendor’s 🙂

Anyhow, I couldn’t get the large pouch anywhere on myself that seemed "right", so I moved to the smaller pouch. A little better. Wore it to dinner and it didn’t bug much, but "wasn’t right".

So, a bit frustrated and disappointed, I gathered everything up and put it in my bag to return the next time I’m at the office where we have a mailroom that makes shipping easy.

A couple of days later, for whatever reason I dug the small pouch back out and tried again. The only real difference is that I had on a different pair of pants. I’ve juggled what I have in it a little since, but I’ve been wearing it daily since then, across multiple pairs of pants (including the first pair that I couldn’t get comfortable with) and have been very pleased.

It takes a second to get on and "latched" (although that improves with practice). The instructions that come with it mention the criticality of ensuring the magnets "latch". I can see their point, and I’m careful to check it, but it honestly latches pretty easily.

Since my second try, I’ve found it to be very comfortable and useful. I truly do forget its there, and it doesn’t move around like a normal "belt loop" pouch like I’ve worn for years. I consider that a good thing.

It also holds well during "clothing adjustments" (to put the process of going to the restroom politely). The pouch just stays with the pants and doesn’t require fiddling when you get redressed.

I intend to loop back and try the larger pouch again. It may still not work for daily wear, but I can certainly see it for "travel" uses.

Hope this epistle helps somebody.

How to Skivvy Roll

How have I made it this long without seeing this (besides never having served in the Marines)?

Huckberry (which sells some very nice looking outdoor gear) had this set of instructions, although the picture says most of it..

Perfected by the Marines, the Skivvy Roll or Grunt Roll is one of the most efficient packing techniques that we have ever seen. Combining all of our essentials (socks, shirt, and briefs) into a compact, bag ready, burrito of gear – it’s a simple, yet ingenious approach that makes filling up your bug out bag or packing for your next camping trip that much easier.

My last trip I wound up packing with a set of underwear and socks for each day wrapped together (t-shirt around shorts and socks), which I found was much better than ways I had tried before. I’m sure many of you are going "where has this guy been", but whatever 🙂

Anyway, this is a step beyond that method, and I’ll be giving it a try the next time I am hitting the road.

Email is key

To kick off my musings on Home IT I wanted to discuss email.

I know that “social media” is the “in” thing now, but even so, your email account should be the first thing you deal with. Nearly any social media site requires an email account to register. Even sites that accept a different site’s login will trace back to an email address at the original site.

And when your password gets messed up, your browser gets reloaded and you loose your saved logons, or you just go blank one day, how do you reset that account? You go to their handy little “I forgot my password” page and enter what? That’s right, your email address. And they send a reset link or whatever to your email address. If you don’t still have access to that account, you’re out of luck.

Your online banking, paying your utility bills, your various web accounts, whatever… so many of them rely on an email address.

All of this leaves aside so many of your friends and acquaintances that may have it on file. Again, social media comes and goes, but so far email lasts. Can you believe email has existed for over 50 years? Would you look forward to changing your phone number? Number portability was a “must have” for many people. Like your phone number or address, when it changes, its a royal pain.

The nice thing about email is that IT NEED NEVER CHANGE! You can have the same email address for the rest of your life (or until email fades away, whichever comes first :-)).


Own your own domain. Don’t just use the email address that your internet provider gives you. You may use their mail servers behind the scenes, but please don’t use that address.

Yes, it will cost you a few bucks a year. But it’s worth it… as soon as you decide to move from DSL to Cable to Satellite to Mesh Networks (or whatever comes next), you’ll appreciate the fact that your email address is still the same.

How many people are still paying AOL just to keep their email address? Millions more use their free service to keep accounts active to keep their AOL e-mail addresses.

I mean CIA Director John Brennan was recently exposed as still using AOL for email. Regretfully the exposure was due to his account being hacked, but…

Wouldn’t you rather have an email address that is “you” and not AOL (leaving aside the humor value of having an AOL account).

My next posting will outline some thoughts on purchasing and maintaining a domain. Then we can see about how to have your email address always follow you around.

Home IT

I’ll admit it… I “do” IT for a living. Have for a long time. I started in the day before the WWW (remember Usenet anybody?) and for many years home internet was a dialup modem. How far we’ve come.

After work, I come home and often “play” with my computer here. Yes, I enjoy it, still.

I’m also the family IT guy. Most families have one. I’m the guy my mother-in-law calls when she opens a new tab in her email program and can’t find her way back to her inbox. I’m the guy that gets the “This coffee program wants to upgrade, what do I do?” (Java) phone call. You know the routine. If you’re reading this, you are quite possibly that guy or gal in your family.

I wonder what people do that don’t have a family IT guy… I guess they are the folks that use Geek Squad or something.

Over and above supporting the extended family, I have my own IT setup. It’s well above what most people have at home, and probably more than we need in the house (how many machines do three people need, anyhow?). This setup, although it has continued to morph over the years as my interests, abilities and resources have changed, has served us very well. I honestly don’t think my family realizes the things that go on behind the scenes to keep them happily computing.

Anyhow, I want to make a series of posts outlining some thoughts and ideas for the “family IT” guy to consider. If you build your own servers, load Linux blindfolded, know the difference between RAID1 from RAID5 (software and hardware based), etc., then this may be a little simplistic (although I hope you might get a few ideas that you might not have considered). If you normally call your son-in-law to help with your email program, maybe not for you either, although you might point him this direction. But if you like to dabble, value having a system that works well and is solid and secure, check the series out.

… but you are a Person

The other day I made a post concerning your reputation and your “brand”.

I wanted to make sure that you think about the flip side of this… you are a brand, but you are more importantly a person. People don’t want to be accosted by a “brand”, they want to know more about a person.

Chris Robley had a tongue-in-cheek take on this point, among others in the Bookbaby Blog

Carry a flashlight

I know this doesn’t really apply to much of anything, but I’m going to post my opinion.

Carry a flashlight.


In your pocket, on your belt (my choice), in your purse, whatever.

In this day and age of unexpected emergencies, it can literally be lifesaving. Don’t be fumbling in the dark for your doorlock.

More commonly (especially as you age), you will find things you just can’t see. Maybe you can’t make out that instruction card with the small print. Maybe you can’t find the screw you just dropped.

Having that light close at hand can make the issue just "go away".

Many people will bring an umbrella with them if there is a 25% chance of rain. Most nights come with a 100% chance of dark. Where’s your flashlight? – Foursevens

There are many, many flashlights available. You can go to the local Walmart or whatever and get something that probably is decent. If you are really going to carry all the time, I would recommend something better, though.

I feel that many people don’t see the use, because "it’s always dead when I reach for it". I believe that’s mostly because you aren’t buying a decent light. Get a good, LED based light (practically never burn out, and dropping them won’t blow the bulb). Buy batteries for it and keep them changed.

There are lots of lights and sellers of "tactical" lights. If you are really interested, check out Candle Power Forums. There are more discussions and experts than you would believe.

For myself, I recommend the Sunwayman V11R very highly. Many of the tactical lights have multiple modes and features. That’s all fine, but I find the only thing I care about is light, and how much of it. The Sunwayman has an easy to adjust, twisting ring that just dims the light as required.

I’ll probably write more about flashlights and other EDC (Every Day Carry) gear I think everybody should have at hand, but for now… find a light and carry it.

Don’t give up control of your brand

You have a brand

Even if you don’t think you do, you have a brand. In earlier days it was known as your reputation. Didn’t your Dad always say that your ‘name’ or your ‘reputation’ was important?

Your online life…

Your reputation online (and often in the ‘real world now’) can be drastically influenced by what you put online. Author’s are always in pursuit of more readers, photographers are looking for clients and people who enjoy their work, musicians want that illusive listener. We all value having somebody look at our ‘work’ and oftentimes we hope they will like it enough to remunerate us for that work.

With this in mind, we pour time and effort into writing blog posts, making web pages, posting to Twitter or Facebook, all those things. Things that take time and mental energy that could actually be used to produce what our adoring fans really want – more pictures, music, books, whatever we hope to be known for.

So, given our limited time here on this planet, where should we be spending our time?

A question we’ve probably all asked ourselves at some point. Guess what, right now I’m not going to tell you an answer. Instead, I want to make another point that I hold near and dear to my heart in this online world.

Mike Damphousse had a good article speaking to some of these ideas: "Fathers’ Day and Your Brand"

Don’t give up control of your brand

As much as you may like (or dislike) Facebook, Twitter, MySpace (remember them?) or whoever is the current trendsetter, remember – they are somebody else’s brand. Unless your name is Zuckerberg (Facebook cofounder), then the employees and management of Facebook have little or no interest in your success.

Why then would you hand out a card saying "check me out on http://facebook.com/brucedillahunty"? Bruce Dillahunty is my brand. It’s my reputation. I care about that reputation and the people that come here. Nobody else can place that importance on my site. My brand is BruceDillahunty.xyz – not somebody’s else’s site.

I may (or may not) use the social media site which is all the rage this week, but I’m going to use it to drive people to my site. Then when Facebook shuts down in a few years (and I’m betting it will happen), or they put such onerous restrictions or pricing around their use that I don’t wish to use them, my users will still be looking at my site.


Get out there, but your own domain, get some decent hosting, and turn up a web site. Its not rocket science any more, and if you aren’t comfortable with it, pay a local student $100 and you’ll be online in no time.

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